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Jimmyjane Form 5 and Hello Touch X vibrators (plus masking tape labels) next to some fall leaves.

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Review: Form 5 + Hello Touch X

October 5, 2015

Why does Jimmyjane still exist? That’s mean. I know. I should delete that. I should write a new first sentence,... Keep Reading

LELO Mia 2 in the Adore Me Pleasure Set, lots of red satin-y stuff surrounding the vibrator.

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Review: Mia 2 and Adore Me Pleasure Set

February 4, 2013

The LELO Mia and I go way back. Almost to the beginning of this blog. A lot of things have... Keep Reading

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Review: Under the Bed Restraint System

August 31, 2009

For a set of restraints, the Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System seems to make a dangerous declaration: fuck bedposts.... Keep Reading

There was a time, not long ago, when seeing a coll

There was a time, not long ago, when seeing a collection like this was rare. Now they pop up all the time, and it makes my little gay heart sing!! To close out Wrath Month, I've updated my blog post about LGBTQ-inspired sex toys. Link in bio, or right here: https://piph.it/rainbow 🌈 New additions include (swipe to see): 🏳‍🌈 SelfDelve's "Fun with Flags" line of ribbed dildos in trans, pansexual, genderqueer, and non-binary color schemes, along with the classic rainbow. 🏳‍🌈 Geeky Sex Toys' Pride dildos and butt plugs in the colors of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and trans flags, with the option for a CUSTOM color scheme defined by YOU! 🏳‍🌈 The handmade, small-batch Inclusion Harness, so bright and so gay, which now comes in a thigh harness style!

NEW REVIEW! My vagina neither forgives nor forgets

NEW REVIEW! My vagina neither forgives nor forgets. When I look at the OhMyG, I feel anticipatory, phantom pangs in my vagina. How am I to know whether the next session will be one of the okay ones, or one that will leave me wincing and distressed? I can't. It's luck of the draw.

Meanwhile, I see all these influencers posting OhMyG unboxing videos, demonstrating the toy's movement and squealing with glee before ever having used the damn thing. They fawn over the ribbons on the box like they're some grand indication of luxury.

If I ever "influence" anything, I truly hope it's independent thought.

Sex toys are not just a blip in my content creation queue, or a low-stakes way for me to cutely remind my followers that orgasms are good for you. I will not be posing for an Instagram shot while coyly holding the OhMyG up to my ear like a phone. I won't be glossing over my incredibly valid concerns for the sake of making sales. I won't pretend the OhMyG is ever going in my vagina again, because it does not deserve that kind of access.

More sick burns in my latest review — link in bio!

New review of the FIRST sex toy EVER to give me a

New review of the FIRST sex toy EVER to give me a VAGINAL JUMP SCARE! 👻 You can see why: the moment my vagina squeezes it, the toy erupts into a series of muffled knocks, like a pissed off woodpecker. It stutters, it skids, it runs into something inside of me, maybe it's pinching me, who even knows. The first time it happened, it spooked the living daylights out of me.

This might be forgivable if the toy delivered on its ten thousand promises to give me the greatest pleasure of my earthly life, but it doesn't. The best way I can describe it: my G-spot’s being treated like a doorbell, and the OhMyG is like some dude poking it over and over because he thinks selling me on his tree pruning service is a goddamn emergency. ⚡ Read my in-depth review of the @ioba.toys OhMyG via the link in my bio!

Audre Lorde, "Equinox" Today both children came h

Audre Lorde, "Equinox"

Today both children came home from school
talking about spring and peace
and I wonder if they will ever know it
I want to tell them we have no right to spring
because our sisters and brothers are burning
because every year the oil grows thicker
and even the earth is crying
because black is beautiful but currently
going out of style
that we must be very strong
and love each other
in order to go on living. ✊🏿 ✊🏾 ✊🏽 ✊🏼 ✊🏻 It's been almost 50 years since this poem was written. The fight is ongoing, always. Racism is as American as apple pie. This country was founded on it. I've benefited from it. My life has been easier while others have faced unimaginable pain. Tony, George, Breonna, Tamir, Botham, Sandra, Eric, Michael, and so many others should BE HERE TODAY. Beautiful Black souls who deserved full lives. Even writing those words feels so small. 💔

I've donated to @mvmnt4blklives @blklivesmatter @naacp_ldf. Since Insta isn't great for sharing links, I'm going to share resources on my Twitter account about where to donate, petitions to sign, protest information, how to educate yourself about anti-racism, etc.

Here are a few more orgs you can donate to: @blackvisionscollective @campaignzero @naacp_ldf @unicorn.riot @audrelordeproject @reclaimtheblock @colorofchange @npap_nlg @mnfreedomfund @emergency_release_fund @sylviariveralawproject

#blacklivesmatter #nojusticenopeace #audrelorde #poetry

Menstrual cups are a gift from the heavens, truly,

Menstrual cups are a gift from the heavens, truly, and the Fun Cups are a lovely example of why. They come in two sizes, each with a different silicone firmness, for varying flows and bodies. They're stemless, with a rigid tip instead, and they're hellz of eco-friendly. You can get the Explore Kit (with both sizes of cup!) for FREE right now with any Fun Factory purchase over $139 at Spectrum Boutique. Is this the time for you to get a Stronic or Volta... or both? I say yes. 🩸🏆 Link in my bio, be sure to add the Explore Kit to your cart and use coupon code LOVINGCUP2020.

I got this shirt for free at AVN. It's not terribl

I got this shirt for free at AVN. It's not terribly comfortable (neckline smothers me!), but free is my favorite price... and I'm not exactly picky right now. #quarantinelooks