Spectrum Boutique is a hip, modern Detroit-based online sex shop dedicated to body-safe toys and radical inclusion. With a curated selection of products (they stock many of my favorite things!) and a refreshing lack of gendered language, their site is a haven of sex-positivity.
Do you love progressive, indie sex shops? Get 20% off your order at Minneapolis-based Smitten Kitten with code HEYEPIPHORA. Feminist to the core and fiercely committed to body-safe toys and accessibility, the selection at Smitten Kitten is incredible. See my toy picks right here.
Black- and trans-owned Enby is a brand new online sex shop focused on affirmation and pleasure for ALL. They stock sex toys, gender-affirming products, and “enby” swag and home goods, striving to create a more comfortable sex toy shopping experience for queer, trans, and non-binary people. 2% of proceeds are donated to a rotating list of underfunded organizations focused on improving the lives of queer/trans people of color.
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Come As You Are (Canada)
Fabulous Canadian indie sex shop Come As You Are has a sale section on their site. You can subscribe to their email newsletter to get free Canadian shipping. (P.S. find a list of my favorite toys available on CAYA right here!)
The Pleasure Garden (UK)
The Pleasure Garden is a lovely indie sex shop based in the UK. They offer a curated selection of the highest quality, body-safe sex toys and an inclusive online shopping experience. Be sure to visit my page of favorite toys, and get 10% off your order with code EPIPHORA.
Nikki Darling (AU)
I have such love for Nikki Darling, a little online shop based in Australia. From the start, they’ve offered an approachable and gender-free shopping experience, with a catalog that is heavily influenced by bloggers’ opinions and, as they call it, “road-testing.” Imagine that! Owner Lauren is a gem, and can we talk about their adorable sex toy pins?!
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Independent feminist shop Passionfruit opened its doors in Melbourne, Australia in 1998, and they ship to both Australia and New Zealand! They’re known for their carefully-selected range of sex toys, lingerie, and bondage products, and I AGREE — they stock heaps of my faves.
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20% off a single item on orders $75+ at Good Vibes.
Tantus has an amazing Grab Bag section, where you can get highly-discounted toys in surprise colors. Current standouts? The Acute ($27), a petite but effective G-spotting dildo; the Ripple Small ($27), a fantastic introduction to anal beads; and They/Them ($36), a thick and stout dildo.
Tenga is a Japanese company known for their unique and well-loved penis strokers. They also produce toys for clits and vaginas in their soft and squeezable Iroha line. Get 15% off at Tenga with code EPIPHORA.
Might I interest you in a fruit- or vegetable-shaped sex toy? That’s the domain of German company SelfDelve. They make 100% silicone dildos shaped like corn, bananas, pickles, carrots, cucumbers, eggplants, and asparagus, and more. Some of their toys even use thermochromic pigments, so they change color with temperature. See this in action on a banana dildo here.
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LuzArte is the manufacturer of amazing Jollies toys like the Jollet. Use code EPIPHORA at check-out to get 15% off your entire order from their store, which offers dildos with custom items embedded in them (!!!) as well as bath products and silicone cannabis accessories.
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