In high school, words were my power. Nobody paid attention to me otherwise. I was a queer kid coming of... Keep Reading
The memory’s a bit of a blur now, but almost 7 years ago, I was standing in the bathroom at... Keep Reading
GAY BEACH GIRLFROND FUNTIMES SUPERBLORPS. That’s what our shared calendar said. We planned the trip on a whim: several nights... Keep Reading
This Christmas, every time I hugged my grandpa, he feigned outrage and yelled “sexual assault!” At my boyfriend’s parents’ house,... Keep Reading
The cliché is true — it feels like just yesterday and like forever ago. This week marks 10 years since... Keep Reading
I’ve had to come out to my parents more than once. When I was 14, I wrote them a letter... Keep Reading
I never know my name anymore. A few months ago, I was at sex educator friend’s party getting high out... Keep Reading
7 sex bloggers were standing outside a glass blowing studio. We’d been waiting for an hour and there was no sign... Keep Reading
I always wanted to be a writer. I wrote e.e. cummings quotes on the inside of my closet and on the... Keep Reading
Aerie greets me at the airport with a bouquet of hand-drawn sex toys. Eleven toys, all of them my favorites, with... Keep Reading
This is the 500th post on this here blog. I felt like it needed some sort of commemoration, so I... Keep Reading
I got my chance to tell my parents about my work sooner than I expected. They invited me over for... Keep Reading
If you had asked me years ago if I was ever going to tell my parents about my blog, I... Keep Reading
I started this blog 3 years ago with no aspirations. No goals. Not knowing what to tweet about. Not knowing what to... Keep Reading