The idea, like all the best ideas, came to me while I was stoned. Lying in bed, half-asleep, it just...
tales from the sex party
I have a unique relationship with my friends…
It was a 30th birthday party unlike any other. The invitation read: Luxurious cuddles, siren’s songs, stroking, finger feeding, dancing,...
The party would change my life, but I didn’t know it yet. I went to the wrong house at first....
Feels like I’ve been waiting forever to tell you this and I’m nearly bursting at the seams. So I’m just...
The cliché is true — it feels like just yesterday and like forever ago. This week marks 10 years since...
The pandemic has been a whole new time of giving-zero-fucks, and for me that’s looked like a sort of survivalist...
Kynan greets me at the airport with a bouquet of hand-drawn sex toys. Eleven toys, all of them my favorites,...
The line between friend and sexual partner became blurred, and yet both were able to coexist in my mind. When...
2017 was a landmark year for this old blog. I commemorated an entire decade of blogging about sex toys, got...
When you arrive at the sex party and present the guests with your vibrating sex chair, you don’t exactly want...