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Sex toy Black Friday + Cyber Monday sales!

The best prices you’ll find on sex toys all year! Oodles of sitewide discounts and Epiphora-exclusive deals!

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Epiphora's sex toy Black Friday and Cyber Monday sales and deals!

GOBBLE GOBBLE, peeps. This is it: my annual list of the best sex toy deals for Black Friday and Cyber Monday! If you’ve been waiting to buy the vibrator, dildo, or butt plug of your dreams, I suggest getting it now. Discounts like these don’t happen on such a grand, sweeping scale at any other time of the year. Best of all? You can stay in your pajamas! In fact, I ENCOURAGE IT!

As always, I have many exclusive codes you won’t find anywhere but here, giving you special discounts and an array of free stuff: a mystery glass toy ($60 value!), toy bag, and even a swag pack of toy bag, stickers, and a tiny dildo! I’ve wheedled many companies to run sales for an entire week, so there’s less scrambling and more sitting back in your easy chair laughing maniacally at your good fortune. Hell yeah.

What are you waiting for? Scroll down and get shoppin’!

Live outside the US? Get 20% off ON TOP of other deals at international shop Lovehoney, or up to 30% off at Canadian shop Come As You Are.

Sex toy sale round-up!

My favorite deals of the moment!

Toy name links to my review. These are likely to sell out, so don’t delay!

Where to shop if you anticipate spending…


SheVibe — up to 25% off everything + free shipping

BEST FOR: orders over $125, for stuff like the Doxy Wand, Zumio, LELO Mona 2, VixSkin dildos, Jellyfish, and more unique lines such as New York Toy Collective, Leaf, NobEssence, BS Atelier, Funkit Toys, and Hole Punch.

Up to 25% off sitewide plus free shipping at SheVibe!

SheVibe is my favorite online shop ever. Not only is it run by amazing people who care, their selection is also super comprehensive and pretty unparalleled. Now through Monday 12/2 EST, it’s an escalating sale at SheVibe: the more you buy, the more you save!

  • 10% off orders $75+ plus free US shipping at SheVibe with code BUMBLE10
  • 15% off orders $100+ plus free US shipping at SheVibe with code JACK15
  • 20% off orders $125+ plus free US shipping at SheVibe with code RALPHIE20
  • 25% off orders $350+ plus free US shipping at SheVibe with code GRINCH25

Check out my favorites for what you should grab! To get the higher discount, it’s best to spend over $125, so now’s the time to get a spendy but wonderful toy like the Doxy Wand, Zumio, or LELO Mona 2. SheVibe has a very comprehensive selection of Vixen Creations dildo colors and Liberator products, and they’re the only shop with the reimagined Jellyfish dildo.

Of course, if you get just a couple of my favorite things, you’ll probably enter the $125+ threshold. Like the Pure Wand + Throe for squirting times, Magic Wand Plus + LuzArte Jollet for lazy masturbation, or Joque harness + Mustang for epic strap on play!


Peepshow Toys — 25% off everything + Piph Packs

BEST FOR: anyone wanting a sweeping discount, honestly. Best prices anywhere on many toys, including the njoy Pure Wand, BMS Sassy, Splendid Piph, Je Joue Rabbit Bullet, We-Vibe Tango and Rave, SenseVibe, njoy Pure Plugs, and LELO Ella.

Mix-and-match bundles at 30%+ off original prices!

Y’ALL, I went balls to the wall this year with Peepshow Toys: we set up mix-and-match Piph Packs of three of my all-time favorite toys! The discounts are staggering — each pack represents 30%+ off original prices!

Now’s THE time to get yourself a perfectly-shaped dual-density dildo (Splendid Piph), an awesome vibrator (BMS Sassy), and/or the best G-spot dildo known to man (njoy Pure Wand). See all the Piph Packs here!

25% off storewide at Peepshow Toys, no code necessary!

Then, get 25% off your entire purchase at Peepshow Toys Thursday through Monday 12/2 EST, no codes necessary, plus epic doorbuster blowout deals!1 Browse my favorites page for ideas.

Doorbuster blowout deals offer up to 60% off specific toys while supplies last. These include the BMS Sassy ($35!), njoy Pure Wand ($79!), njoy Pure Plug bundle ($48-63), Femmefun Ultra Bullet ($35), Blush Nocturnal Bullet ($21), Velvet Thruster Mini Teddy ($100), Uberrime Splendid large ($75), and more.

Epiphora's exclusive Splendid dildo in sea green for $54!

Just want the Splendid dildo in limited edition sea green? Go for it! It’s discounted too, down to only $54. Through Monday or while supplies last. Maybe get yourself the best harness in existence to go with it, eh?!


Lovehoney — 20% off everything, on top of 20% off sitewide

BEST FOR: international (and not!) purchases of toys I adore, especially the Womanizer Pro40, Magic Wand Rechargeable, LELO Mona 2, Fun Factory Volta and Stronics, Doxy, We-Vibe Touch, Rave, and Tango, and Vixen dildos.

Get 20% off at Lovehoney, on top of other deals!

My favorite worldwide sex toy shop, Lovehoney, is offering a steep 20% off sitewide, which stacks on top of their other amazing sales and special offers, on their US, UK, and Friday AU sites through Tuesday 12/3 (local time). I am running an exclusive 20% on top of that! You must visit my landing page to receive the additional discount!

Lovehoney’s the only place to get the Womanizer Pro40, one of my favorite iterations of the popular suction toy, and it’s only $77. This deal gives you the BEST discount on the Magic Wand Rechargeable ($90!), LELO Mona 2 ($109), Fun Factory Volta ($82) and Stronics ($115), Doxy ($78), We-Vibe Touch ($64), Rave ($62), and Tango ($51), and Vixen dildos. Lovehoney also stocks the best inexpensive kegel balls, the Tracey Cox Supersex Toner Balls.

This link should take you to the Lovehoney that corresponds to your location. If not, try these:


Tantus — 55% off everything, including grab bag toys

BEST FOR: really really cheap silicone dildos and butt plugs, specific Tantus toys such as the Magma ($28!), Echo ($32 or $18 grab bag version!), Cush ($32!), and Ryder ($16!).

55% off everything at Tantus with code PIPHBF!

Holy shit, guys, it’s back this year: 55% off everything at Tantus, including already-cheap grab bag toys (seriously, the Echo dildo is only $18!) with code PIPHBF.2 These prices are out of control, making this is the perfect time to stock up on quality silicone dildos and plugs!

Tantus makes many things I love, all detailed on this page. My favorite anal toys are the Ryder (my review), Neo, and Juice (all less than $16 in this sale!), and some excellent dildos are the Magma (my review), Cush (my review), Echo (my review), Goddess (my review), and Sport ($17-32). The Super Soft C Ring ($5, yo) is also rad.


Spectrum Boutique — 20% off my faves + much more

BEST FOR: a lot of stuff! Harder-to-find items that I love such as the Jollet, Eroscillator, Portland Toy Company, and Ass Cram Cone, with 20-25% off other brands including Fun Factory and We-Vibe.

20% off Epiphora's favorites at Spectrum Boutique with code PIPHBF!

It’s trueeee, you can get 20% off my favorite toys at Spectrum Boutique now through Wednesday 12/4 EST with code PIPHBF! No minimum purchase to get this discount! They’ve also slashed prices on a bunch of toys in their sale section:

Or, if you’d rather just get a cart discount through 12/6:

  • Use code TAKE15 for 15% off orders over $150
  • Use code TAKE20 for 20% off orders over $250
  • Use code TAKE25 for 25% off orders over $350

Spectrum, run by none other than Zoë Ligon, is a modern online sex shop dedicated to body-safe toys and radical inclusion. Their curated selection is extremely on point, and my taste is obviously great, so take advantage!


Come As You Are — up to 30% off everything

BEST FOR: Americans wanting to take advantage of the redonk exchange rate, or Canadians, eh. The Pure Wand specifically on Sunday 12/1.

Up to 30% off at Come As You Are!

Black Friday through Monday 12/2 EST, get tiered savings of up to 30% off at fabulous Canadian indie sex shop Come As You Are, plus 20% off the njoy Pure Wand with code NJOY today only 12/1, which makes it about $72 USD! My favorites are all listed here, and the exchange rate is such that if you’re an American and spend enough, many toys are at their best price anywhere.3

  • 10% off orders $100+ (before discount!) with code BFCM10
  • 20% off orders $250+ (before discount!) with code BFCM20
  • 30% off orders $500+ (before discount!) with code BFCM30
  • Free shipping on Canadian orders over $55 and U.S. orders over $155

Come As You Are is also running some daily specials, including one regarding the Pure Wand that is VERY GOOD. Take note:

  • Friday 11/29: 20% off all LELO with code LELO — get the Mona 2 for only $110 USD!
  • Saturday 11/30 20% off all Je Joue with code JEJOUE — get the Classic Bullet for only $41 USD!
  • Sunday 12/1: 20% off the njoy Pure Wand with code NJOY — that makes it about $72 USD!

Fun Factory US — 25% off everything + free swag

BEST FOR: a big-ass discount on Fun Factory toys, such as the Stronic G and Volta, plus swag up the wazoo!

25% off everything at Fun Factory, plus free swag with orders over $129!

Fun Factory toys rarely go on sale, so this is big: 25% off everything at Fun Factory US plus free shipping through Wednesday 12/4. Best of all? If you spend $129+ (after discount), use code PIPHBF to get a swag pack including a free Toybag M (which you must add to your cart first!), adorable gnome stickers, and tiny Patchy Paul dildo like the one I have. Noice!

What should you get? I mean, the self-thrusting Stronic G and the Stronic Surf stroke my G-spot with incredible ease, and you know I am ALL ABOUT that life. I’m obsessed with the versatile Volta, which is easily my fave vibrator Fun Factory makes. The Bootie is my fave silicone butt plug, I enjoy the odd sensations of the Bouncer and B Ball Uno, and the Tiger G5 and Big Boss G5 are impressively powerful vibrators for your money. Fun Factory makes solid toys, yo.


Crystal Delights — 25% off everything + free mystery glass toy

BEST FOR: gorgeous glass dildos and anal toys — plus a mystery toy worth $60!

25% off at Crystal Delights plus a free mystery box glass toy with orders $100+ with code PIPHBF!

Wow, this is an incredible deal on toys from my very favorite glassmakers! Get 25% off everything at Crystal Delights now through Wednesday 12/4 PST, plus a free mystery box glass toy ($60 value, yo!) with any order $100+ with code PIPHBF. How can you resist that?! Answer: you can’t, and shouldn’t!

Everything Crystal Delights creates is a work of art. They make both of my all-time favorite glass dildos, the beautimous Crystal Twist (my review) and bumpy Star Delight (my review), as well as beautiful butt plugs, some with fluffy animal tails, others with fantastically-colored tails.


LELO — up to 50% off

BEST FOR: Mona 2 and international purchases of other LELO toys.

Up to 50% off at LELO, plus a gift with orders over $100 with code BFVIP.

LELO’s offering deep discounts on many of their toys through Wednesday 12/4. The Mona 2 is 27% off! Plus get a surprise gift with every purchase over $100 with code BFVIP.

I’ve compiled my favorite products of theirs on this page, and you can see all the discounts there. My picks: the versatile and sleek Mona 2 (review here), G-spot-centric battery-operated Moka (only $39!), Luna Beads kegel balls (review here), compact yet surprisingly powerful Nea 2, and travel-friendly Mia 2 (review here), all of which are 25-50% off in this sale.


Early to Bed — 15% off my faves + free toy bag

BEST FOR: purchases of less expensive and rarer items from my favorites list, such as the blowjob dildo, Magic Wand Plus, queer truth or dare, and the rainbow harness, plus a free toy bag!

15% off Epiphora's favorites at Early to Bed with code PIPHBF, plus a free toy bag when you spend $25 or more!

Do you understand how madly in love I am with Early to Bed? Especially because they work with me on a special deal just for my readers EVERY year. Now through Wednesday 12/4, buy at least one product from my favorites page and get 15% off your total order with coupon code PIPHBF. Plus, if you spend over $25 you’ll get a free Early to Bed toy bag!

Although this may not be the steepest discount you can get, Early to Bed is one of the greatest little indie sex shops around. They’re not afraid to call out sexism in the industry and they work their butts off to provide accurate sex ed day after day, so you should support them!


Liberator — 33% off everything

BEST FOR: positioning pillows and waterproof sex blankets, oh my!

33% off everything at Liberator with code CYBER33.

Get 33% off everything at Liberator with code CYBER33, plus a free gift with orders over $200 and free shipping in the continental U.S. with orders over $75. Sale ends after 12/3, I think!

Need to prop yourself up better, during sex or (let’s be honest) otherwise? Liberator’s supportive and comfy positioning pillows are amazing; my favorite is the classic Wedge. They also make the lifesaving Fascinator Throe, a waterproof blanket. Squirters rejoice!


We-Vibe + Womanizer — 20% off everything

BEST FOR: a rad deal on We-Vibe and Womanizer toys.

20% off everything at We-Vibe and Womanizer!

Been wanting something from We-Vibe or Womanizer? Get 20% off everything on each of their sites Thursday 11/28 through Friday 12/6. No code necessary!

The Womanizer Starlet is only $59 in this sale, which is awesome because it’s still my favorite Womanizer aside from the Pro40. We-Vibe, of course, makes many exceptional toys. The Tango (my review) and Touch (my review) are some of the best small rechargeable vibes out there, and the Rave (my review) is a wonderfully versatile G-spottin’ vibe. There’s also the ergonomic rabbit Nova (my thoughts) and the Pleasure Mates Collection, which I fashioned into a hands-free clitoral orgasm device.


New York Toy Collective — 35% off Playtime line and whoops toys

BEST FOR: starter dildos ‘n’ plugs and handcrafted, colorful dildos, packers, and STPs!

35% off Playtime line and whoops toys at New York Toy Collective.

Get 35% off the Playtime line (code WINTER) or whoops toys (code FRIDAY) at New York Toy Collective now through Sunday 12/1! Whoops toys are perfectly-good items with small cosmetic imperfections; Shilo is their much-loved pack and play dildo, thick Carter makes me squirt every time. There are packers and STPs in the whoops section as well, and 35% off the Playtime line means that starter dildos and butt plugs are as low as $19.50!


Good Vibes + Babeland — 25% off everything

BEST FOR: sitewide discounts with no minimum.

$30 off orders over $99 at Good Vibes through 12/9!

Through 12/9, get $30 off orders over $99 at GoodVibes. I suggest you get something from my favorites page, such as the Comet II Wand, LELO Siri 2, BJ Dildo, Siren (great G-spotting from this one!), Magic Wand Rechargeable, and/or njoy Pure Wand.

$30 off orders over $99 at Babeland through 12/9!

Oh look! It’s $30 off orders over $99 at Babeland through Monday. Visit my favorites page for ideas on what to get. Perhaps the Eroscillator, Je Joue Rabbit Bullet, or Vibratex Mystic Wand? When it comes to dildos, you can’t go wrong with anything from Vixen Creations.


Be a Sex Blogger — 20% off independent study

BEST FOR: aspiring sex bloggers!

20% off independent study coursework at Be a Sex Blogger with code FRIDAY.

Do you dream of becoming a sex blogger? Use code FRIDAY to save 20% on all my Business of Blogging About Sex Independent Study coursework now through Wednesday 12/4!4 This course that I teach with JoEllen Notte offers all the wisdom of our combined 15+ years blogging PLUS the input of over 30 industry experts!

Want to learn it all? From site building to content creation to social media mastery and making actual money with your blog — it’s all there. Check out the full Independent Study!

Want to select only the lessons you need? Need help setting up? Or sharpening those writing skills? Perhaps you’re most interested in monetizing your site? Or taking your brand to the next level? Our Individual Lessons let you pick what you want!


Dreamhost — blog hosting for only $4.95!

BEST FOR: budding bloggers needing a kick in the pants to start that blog.

Unlimited shared hosting for $4.95/month at Dreamhost!

In related news, my awesome sex-positive host, Dreamhost, is offering their unlimited shared hosting at just $4.95/month for new customers Friday through Monday EST! That’s $60 off their regular plan! Includes 1 free domain, plus unlimited space and bandwidth.


Sliquid — 35% off everything

BEST FOR: stocking up on super discounted lube and body products!

Nearly 35% off everything at Sliquid with code EPIPHORA.

Sliquid is my favorite lube ever. Stock up on your lube for the year with their sale! Black Friday through Cyber Monday CST, get an amazing ~35% off all orders at Sliquid with code EPIPHORA. (Their sale is 25% off storewide, then my code takes off an additional 10%.) That means 2 oz bottles of my water-based faves H2O and Sassy are only about $5 each, or get a sample pack to test different formulas.

I love Sliquid because they make products with ingredients you can trust, including water-based, oil-based, silicone-based, hybrid, and flavored lube, and other stuff such as massage oil, intimate wash, shaving cream, and toy cleaner.


Smitten Kitten — 30% off everything Monday only

BEST FOR: good-hearted folks wanting to support a progressive indie sex shop. Monday only, the best deal on the Magic Wand Rechargeable, Eroscillator, and Zumio.

30% off sitewide at Smitten Kitten TODAY ONLY!

Don’t blink or you’ll miss this sale at Smitten Kitten! TODAY only, get 30% off everything on their site (!!!) with code CYBER19. My picks are chronicled here. Feminist to the core, Smitten Kitten also carries small manufacturers such as Hole Punch Toys and Fuze, and unique items such as acrylic dildos, “This Bag is Full of Sex Toys” shopping bags, pronoun buttons, and more.

Smitten Kitten slays the day with their deals on these toys in particular:


Fleshlight — up to 50% off + great freebies!

Through Monday, there are tons of savings at Fleshlight and and their gay site, Fleshjack! Such as up to 40% off combo packs and 50% off Fleshlight brand products! Plus, the more you spend, the more cool shit you get with your order:

  • Spend $100, get free shipping
  • Spend $150, get free shipping and a special gift
  • Spend $200, get free shipping, special gift, and Limited Edition Fleshskins Grip sleeve
  • Spend $250, get free shipping, special gift, Limited Edition Fleshskins Grip sleeve, and Limited Edition North Pole Sleeve

Porn, porn, porn!

BEST FOR: horn dogs with good taste!

15% off any membership to Crash Pad Series with code PIPHBF.

Get 15% off any subscription level to queer porn site CrashPadSeries.com with code PIPHBF now through Wednesday 12/4! Arguably one of the greatest queer porn sites on the internet, Crash Pad documents hotties of all flavors sexing it up in beautifully-shot harmony. Based on Shine Louise Houston’s dyke sex cult classic The Crash Pad, CrashPadSeries.com is a one-of-a-kind membership site that will affirm your identity AND make you wanna masturbate.

15% off any membership to PinkLabel.TV with code PIPHBF.

If you’re looking for a smörgåsbord of indie, feminist, and queer porn, join PinkLabel.tv and get 15% off your membership there with code PIPHBF through Wednesday 12/4. It’s like the Netflix of indie porn, with videos from independent adult filmmakers around the world for you to stream whenever you want!


Pleasure Chest — 20% off everything

BEST FOR: sitewide discount with no minimum.

20% off sitewide at Pleasure Chest!

Ho ho ho! Thursday through Monday, get 20% off everything and 25% off Fun Factory and LELO at Pleasure Chest.


Amazon

BEST FOR: your non-sex toy purchases, ’cause you love me.

Amazon Black Friday deals week

If you’re shopping for non-sex-toys at Amazon, might I gently cajole you into clearing your browser cookies and using my affiliate link? I even have a special page on Amazon now listing all my favorite life essentials.

Be the coolest sex toy fanatic on the block with your very own lube dispenser (my review), over-the-door sex toy organizer, USB charging station, or plastic storage cart, and masturbate like royalty this winter with a space heater. (Life changing, I tell you.)

Or, other products I love that you should get (for yourself or as gifts): an Oontz bluetooth speaker, a sturdy-ass Camelbak water bottle, THE BEST EVER WINE OPENER, my favorite game, a Kindle, socks that somehow never stink (?! it’s a MYSTERY), a handy spice rack, and my fave nail polish top coat. Also, one time I got my republican grandpa this toilet paper with $100 bills on it and it was a riot.

  1. Magic Wands are 20% off. Square Peg toys are excluded.
  2. Excludes Feeldoes, Realdoes, lubes and cleaners, and other brands.
  3. Here’s how that works: when you buy something online from another country, your credit card/PayPal is billed in the home country’s currency, and your payment processor applies the exchange rate. So, for instance, if an American buys $100 of sex toys from CAYA in Canada, they’ll actually be charged about $76 USD. You can calculate the exchange rate in advance by Googling “100 CAD in USD,” etc. Americans are not charged duties unless their order exceeds $800.
  4. Sale pricing does not apply to add-on purchases.

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Comments

  1. just made an order at Tantus as a guest. It went through on their site but I didn’t get an order confirmation email. Do I need to make another order?

  2. just made an order at Tantus as a guest. It went through on their site but I didn’t get an order confirmation email. Do I need to make another order?

  3. Thanks. I checked my bank account online and the charge is up there so I guess it’s fine… I used your discount code so it was a good price at least.

  4. Hey, just wanted to let other peeps know that if you’re in Canada and in university, there’s a Lovehoney coupon with Student Beans you can use to get an extra 25% off whatever discounts are already happening on site for Black Friday. Crazy discount levels!!! Caveat: you can’t use the Epiphora or other affiliate links, it wipes out the uni discount :(.

    Also, why does everyone in Canada only stock the black Volta?? I keep wanting something G5 and colourful from Fun Factory, and I’ve ended up with the black line Big Boss and now the black Volta, argh. Unless you want to pay full price of course. But at least they match I guess?

  5. Hey, just wanted to let other peeps know that if you’re in Canada and in university, there’s a Lovehoney coupon with Student Beans you can use to get an extra 25% off whatever discounts are already happening on site for Black Friday. Crazy discount levels!!! Caveat: you can’t use the Epiphora or other affiliate links, it wipes out the uni discount :(.

    Also, why does everyone in Canada only stock the black Volta?? I keep wanting something G5 and colourful from Fun Factory, and I’ve ended up with the black line Big Boss and now the black Volta, argh. Unless you want to pay full price of course. But at least they match I guess?

  6. I feel silly, but I’m unsure I’m clicking the right thing for Lovehoney. (Trying to snag that Magic Wand Rechargeable at $90 deal!)… Wondering if that was a Black Friday-only deal and not thru the weekend?

  7. My landing page link was effed up! You have to visit my landing page first but it had the wrong link. Try it now, and thank you for letting me know!

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