Jun 152018

BMS Factory Swan Curve vibrator leaning against the Swan Wand, with Mini Swan Wand in foreground

When I hear the word “swan,” I think of a few things. Grace. Elegance. The color white. Bjork. Overwrought symbols of romance. Ostentatious pool floaties. And, because the folds of my brain are lined with a freakishly encyclopedic knowledge of sex toys, I think of a line of rechargeable vibrators called Swan.

Swan is not the manufacturer. The toys are actually produced by BMS Factory, a company that prefers to mysteriously hide behind the names of their various toy lines. They make the favorably-reviewed Leaf and PalmPower lines, others called Pillow Talk and Lux, and the motors in some stuff from Jopen. If you’ve ever seen the phrase Powered by PowerBullet® stamped onto a sex toy box or printed in marketing materials, the toy’s made by BMS.

Counter-intuitive as it is considering the eponymous Power Bullet is my personal nemesis (and pet example of terribly buzzy vibrations!), Powered by PowerBullet® does seem to indicate a rechargeable toy with a motor that is not complete junk. I first learned this with the Leaf Life, and 6 years later it’s still a toy I greatly enjoy. That really speaks to the quality of the vibration, considering my clit becomes more discerning by the year. I decided it was time to try more toys from BMS.

Eschewing such deeply offensive products as a dual vibe called the Black Swan that comes only in blaring pink, I opted to try the Swan WandMini Swan Wand, and Swan Curve. All of which are silicone, rechargeable,1 waterproof vibes with 1-year warranties, complete with labeled charging cords (YES!) and storage bags. And it has been quite the learning experience… much time has been spent with my eyes narrowed, vibrator pressed to my clit, contemplating the intricacies of these simple-looking toys.

Swan Wand — big, rumbly, and… awkward

The original Swan Wand is probably the most well-known toy in the Swan line. It’s a beastly double-ended vibrator with two robust motors, one in each end — as if the Magic Wand had a love child with a hot pink G-spot vibrator. Many sex bloggers are fans of this toy, all with their own favorite ways of using it: for broad external stimulation, for satisfying internal vibration, for intensely enveloping the G-spot.

And it is good at all of those things. The Swan Wand is, objectively, a good sex toy with a very impressive, very rumbly motor. I do not dispute this. But for every good use this vibrator has, I can think of another toy I’d prefer — for reasons that, I promise, have nothing to do with my aversion to the color pink.

BMS Factory Swan Wand vibrator

For one, the buttons are in the middle of the vibrator. This is unavoidable with double-ended toys, but still causes me to curse the sky when I have the toy inserted and want to change settings. Imagine groping around for buttons on the underside of the vibe — inside or very near the vag — while everything’s slippery with lube. Two buttons which must be pressed simultaneously to turn the thing off.

I do not enjoy this game, especially when internal vibrations are at stake. I need to be able to dial those back, to control them precisely, because the line between “ooh, that’s nice” and “WOW NOPE IT’S SHAKING MY ENTIRE PELVIS” is very thin. I can’t use any of the Swan Wand’s vibration patterns internally, because they all ramp up to an excessive, harsh intensity that makes my vagina want to spit the toy out, immediately, just to get some relief.

The Swan Wand’s expansive large end measures 2″ in diameter and would be excellent for clobbering an intruder. Or, if you’re up for the challenge, occupying every square inch of an orifice. At least that’s how it feels to me. Once swallowed by my vagina, it hooks in there so thoroughly and fills the space so completely that even slight thrusting is difficult. It becomes, actually, claustrophobic… I much prefer the ease, and softness, of the Randy. (Can’t believe I’m calling a humongous dildo “easy,” but compared to the firm Swan Wand, it feels like a gentle nudge.)

The small end of the Swan Wand is a fine, slightly curved shape, but its stimulation is nothing that other G-spot vibes (Mona 2, Rave, Prism V, Big Boss) can’t provide, all with more manageable handles and easily-accessible controls.

I don’t love the Swan Wand as a clitoral toy, either. The small end is an agreeable size for my clit, but grasping it by the fat end feels unwieldy; I’d rather use the SenseVibe. The large end covers more surface area, but if I’m in the mood for that, I’ll use the Magic Wand Rechargeable. On high, the Swan Wand’s big end lands somewhere between settings 2 and 3 on the Magic Wand Rechargeable — closer to 3 if I turn on the additional motor. But it vibrates my hand a LOT more.

“Not my thing, but could be yours” is a sentiment I cringe to express, but I’m not just tossing it off — I do believe it. The Swan Wand is definitely the closest thing you’ll find to a waterproof wand-style vibe, if that’s your dream. It’d be good for folks who love broad stimulation or who’ve always wanted to insert the head of the Magic Wand. Its motor is fantastically thuddy and admirably powerful, and it’s priced appropriately, at $120.

You could argue that the Swan Wand offers more options than the alternative toys I’ve mentioned, and you’d have a point. Its design is open-ended that way. Perhaps, perhaps, if someone isn’t quite sure what they like, it’s a safer bet. It has its merits, and I can appreciate them in theory, but in practice, they’re all a bit lost on me.

Mini Swan Wand — well-priced and strong, but flawed

“Mini” seems too generous: the Mini Swan Wand is like a dollhouse version of the Swan Wand. This shrunken, 4.75″-long version can accommodate only a single motor, concentrated in the fatter end. Still, I’d grade it highly on adjustability. Like the other Swan toys here, I can discern about eight intensity levels. It doesn’t have any pattern options, and I’m not shedding a single tear over it.

BMS Factory Mini Swan Wand vibrator

Controls, however, get a C-. As with the Leaf line, the Mini Swan Wand is controlled by a single button that you must press and hold to turn up the intensity. You WILL end up accidentally turning it off when you mean to turn it up. I guarantee it. The button is also in the weirdest spot: on the back, in the middle. To those who made this choice, I have a question: have you… ever… used a vibrator before? Because we orient toys so they curve toward our genitals, and nobody wants the button on the other side, where they can’t see it, in the middle rather than near the top.

The Mini Swan Wand’s power is impressive. It’s quite strong for its size, landing somewhere between the We-Vibe Touch and Tango. But the quality of the vibration degrades with each bump in intensity, like my smile gradually dissolving into a pained grimace. I’m always happy with how it feels until I start creeping into the higher settings, where it becomes increasingly buzzy and abrasive. It’s not going to prevent orgasm or anything, considering the strength of the vibration, but I prefer something less zippy on the trek toward climax.

Now here’s where price complicates my opinion. If this thing cost over $100, I’d tell you nah, for your money there are better things. But for $50, the Mini Swan Wand is more adjustable and powerful than comparable rechargeable toys. Those who don’t mind the higher-pitched vibrations could like it a lot. There I go again! But it’s true — it’s a decent vibe for the price, just not a stand-out one for me.

Swan Curve — awesome vibrations, annoying controls

I gotta say, the Swan Curve is probably my favorite of the bunch, which is surprising considering it had the biggest hurdle to overcome: squeeze controls. Yep: in lieu of buttons, the Swan Curve has two pads on either side of the handle that vibrate in response to pressure. And while this once-novel technology is useful for creating custom patterns, as the only way to adjust the vibrations it feels pretty short-sighted.

BMS Factory Swan Curve vibrator

But GOSH DANGIT, everything else about this toy is on point. The vibrations are nice and rumbly, and you can get a solid eight intensities out of it by increasing gradually. The versatile design makes sense clitorally2 or internally. It’s a tried and true shape for G-spot stimulation and, basic as it may be, makes for a quite good G-spotter. I relish being able to create patterns that aren’t uterus-shakingly powerful, and that price, $70, is particularly appealing.

The Swan Curve’s control pads don’t compress under my fingers, which is odd and makes me feel forever unsure if I’m doing it right. They’re located on the sides of the handle — not where my fingers rest if I want to adjust it in real time, and why would I? It’s sensitive enough that small changes can make it drop in intensity or cease vibrating entirely, and I’d prefer not to feel like I’m in one of those challenges on Survivor where contestants have to hold an object until their hands fail.

Sure, you can push the button once while squeezing to “lock” it into an intensity. But that requires two hands, and I don’t want to re-program my vibrator every time I want to change a setting!

So, the Swan Curve is not exactly a toy that gets me from point A to point B flawlessly; it does not excel during every portion of the masturbatory experience. I like the variety of the clitoral stimulation when I program a subtle pattern, but I generally don’t want to come during one, and no way in hell am I going to trust my feeble fingers to squeeze adequately enough to ride out an orgasm. I also find it difficult to create a pattern that has no gap in the vibration when it loops.

The actual programming is easier with the similar Minna Ola, which requires less pressure, deflates noticeably under my touch, and features a dedicated button for marking the beginning and end of my pattern. But the Swan Curve wins at everything else: vibration quality and strength, ergonomics, G-spot stimulation — for half the price. Overall, it’s a better toy.

Speaking of being a better toy, the Swan Curve is a little more powerful and definitely more rumbly than the Rave and Mona. Which is quite the statement considering those are a few of my favorite vibrators of all time. $70 is amazing for vibrations like this, and I so wish I could unequivocally endorse this vibe — but instead I must sigh heavily, fantasizing about a version with less gimmicky controls.

Check out the Swan WandMini Swan Wand, and Swan Curve at SheVibe.

  1. Via one of those long thin plugs you stab into the toy. []
  2. Although the shaft is flexible, which could be problematic for someone who uses a LOT of pressure. I didn’t find it to be an issue. []
Jun 032018
Rainbow dildos, queer butt plugs, and gay sex toys ahoy!

Once upon a time, sex toys were either pink, purple, or a hideous shade of beige I’ve heard described as “silly putty,” “bandaid,” or “uncooked hot dog.” It was an era of churning out questionable designs in stinky toxic materials, characterized by companies’ hyper fixation on catering to the only target market they could imagine: straight, white, young, non-disabled cis women. (And a stereotypical understanding of them, at that.)

But now, decades later, any sex toy manufacturer who’s been paying attention has realized that’s a really narrow view of sex toy users. More social-justice-minded companies now market their toys based on what the products do rather than prescribing who they’re for, and the color palette has expanded considerably.  [. . . read the rest]

May 192018
Rock your G-spot giveaway winners!

Recently, somebody pointed out to me just how far my giveaways have come. An old giveaway from the early days of my blog fetched 30 entrants, which at the time was impressive. Now, here I am writing a wrap-up post for my most recent giveaway, Rock your G-spot, which garnered over 2,000 individual entrants. W. T. F.

Of course, this time I was giving away something much much cooler: 8 self-thrusting Stronic G toys from Fun Factory. But still, I’m forever amazed at the response, and especially the amazing artistic entries. SO MANY GOOD ONES, you guys! I’m excited to share them with you here. [. . . read the rest]

May 192018
The world's FIRST and only REAL G-spot toy! Ever!!!

Revolutionary! Game-changing! The best! The first! The only! Companies have been wailing such nonsense since the beginning of time. Sex toy manufacturers in particular love to employ this sort of language, although usually it’s subtle and vaguely infuriating, not in-your-face and outright laughable in its shamelessness.

But today is a beautiful day, my friends, because I’ve found something that is outright laughable in its shamelessness. Remarkably unattractive and aggressively overhyped, it is “the FIRST and ONLY true G-spot stimulator” and “the world’s first G-spot vibrator that actually works!” and as such, we must bow down to it. We might as well just trash our entire sex toy collections now and I can kiss this blog goodbye, because this toy is going to change EVERYTHING. [. . . read the rest]

May 062018
Review: Evi

I’m on edge, watching my every move. Like the first day on a new job. Like the feds are after me. Like a driving test. Like masturbating at age 15.

But I am not actually in a high-stress situation. I just have something in my vagina. And its name is Evi.

The Aneros Evi is a… kegel exerciser. Imagine me saying that with the same sort of hesitance in my voice as when I say “don’t worry, I can kill that spider” or “surely the Republicans can’t continue standing by him after this.” In actuality, the Evi is more defined by what it is not: it is not a butt plug (although it looks just like one), and it is not a vibrator (although it should be). [. . . read the rest]

Apr 172018
Giveaway: rock your G-spot!

Hey, friend, how’s your G-spot doing lately? Still real, despite what the media says? Perhaps feeling a bit drab, a little understimulated? Or is it in a good mood, but always hungry for more? Looking for a sex toy that does pretty much all the work of hitting it? I GOTCHU.

Just a few months ago, I crowned Fun Factory’s Stronic G pulsator the best sex toy of 2017. Its automated back-and-forth thrusting motion and perfectly-hooked tip are a G-spotting dream, causing me to squirt with very little effort. Now it’s 2018, a new year, and the perfect time for you to form a closer bond with your G-spot. [. . . read the rest]

Apr 152018
The formulating of Piph Lube

Piph Lube, with the glitter settled at the bottom, in front of my sex toy closet.

The idea, like all the best ideas, came to me while I was stoned. Lying in bed, half-asleep, it just popped into my head: my April Fool’s joke this year would be a fake lube containing ridiculous and very #me ingredients such as pinot grigio, Portland rain water, and of course, weed.

If I wanted my fake lube to seem as believable as possible, I needed some help from my favorite sex toy retailer. SheVibe, the absolute darlings, readily agreed — to design the label, to source the bottles, and to create an actual product page on their site. [. . . read the rest]

Apr 122018
Sex toy news: bionic dildos and a bundle of alien fingers

Yay, the Canadian cuties at Fuze have four new suction cup dildos: Flame, Major (uncut and girthy!), Freddie, and Star. They can attach to each other, too, to make a custom double-ended dildo.

Jimmyjane’s new Tre looks like a bundle of alien fingers. Isn’t that what you want to put on your clit? (Hot tip: if you want to be even poorer, buy the version that comes with a UV sanitizing case!)

Dicks that become erect at the push of a button? THE FUTURE IS NOW.

Flickering tips, y’all! The Volta is Fun Factory’s latest, and I must tell you from first-hand clitoral experience: I quite like it! [. . . read the rest]

Mar 312018
Piph Lube: get it now!

[Surprise! This wine-infused sparkly stoner lube was an April Fool’s joke.]

Feels like I’ve been waiting forever to tell you this and I’m nearly bursting at the seams. So I’m just gonna blurt it out: GUYS, I HAVE MY OWN LUBE NOW.

It was my BFFs over at SheVibe who helped me turn this dream into reality. They’ve never helped develop a lube before, but they were down for the challenge. Now, after many months of planning, designing, and testing, it is here. Introducing Piph Lube: a radically stimulating water-based lubricant formulated with pure Portland rain water.

This is the height of celebrity. [. . . read the rest]

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